The title speaks volumes I am sure everyone has either been ghosted before or has ghost someone else for whatever reasons. If you are not sure what ghosting is per the urban dictionary Ghosting is when a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they’re dating, with zero warning or notice beforehand. You’ll mostly see them avoiding friend’s phone calls, social media, and avoiding them in public.
You may even get BLOCKED no one is off limits you can be a victim if you are a friend, lover, family member, etc. Many people ghost others for different reasons I think it is completely wrong to ghost someone with no explanation. If you can just ghost someone and never say anything else to that person that clearly shows what type of person you are. If you are a person that has been ghosted it is by someone that you believe cares about you, whether it be a friend or someone you are dating, and they disappear from contact without any explanation at all.
People who ghost are primarily focused on avoiding their own emotional discomfort and they aren’t thinking about how it makes the other person feel. When someone we love and trust disengages from us it feels like a very deep betrayal. I myself was ghosted before by a friend and that caused me to have major trust issues with anyone new that comes into my life, it caused me to always think in the back of my head that my new friends or friend would pull the same moves one day. If I feel that someone is getting distant I start to get nervous like ok this is a sign they are about to ghost. I am very loving and care about all of my friends and family so if anyone pushes me away I do not take that lightly.
What can you do if you have been ghosted or how to move forward? Don’t allow someone else’s bad behavior to rob you of a better future by losing and shutting yourself off from another relationship. Keep your energy focused on doing what makes you happy. it says nothing about you as a person, It shows he/she doesn’t have the courage to deal with the discomfort of their emotions or worse they dont care. Let them go peacefully.
If you are someone that Ghost people… GET YO LIFE and treat people the way you would want to be treated. Communicate if you don’t want to talk to someone let them know don’t be P****.Okurrrr